Support Aeon Donate now There is a simple and surprisingly durable myth about what causes men to rape women. It goes like this: Through the early days of psychology as a science, this basic assumption remained the same.
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You can follow him on Twitteron Gab or on his Youtube channel. And while greatly exaggerated thanks to paranoia, there is some truth to this: And yet, despite all this hysteria over rape and how women are all in fear of it… they really seem to fantasize about it one whole hell of a lot.
And this is hardly a new thing: And that too had a silent movie franchise funded by millions of women with drenched panties. The reason I point all of this out is that, clearly, women—or at the very least a small subset of women—luuuuurve them some violent sexual fantasies.
And more importantly, how can you use these fantasies in a law abiding manner to your sexual advantage? Researchers at the University of North Texas asked undergraduates of all races and socioeconomic backgrounds whether they had had various types of rape fantasies of both heterosexual and homosexual variants, and two-thirds of women had at least occasional fantasies of being violated against their will.
Thus the old theory that the fantasies were merely sublimated desires to actually be raped that men would act upon is likely not true. While there may have been some truth to this as late as the 90s what else were those trashy supermarket romance novels with Fabio on the cover targeting?
Instead, I think that the other explanation is much closer to the truth: Women fantasize about their bodices being ripped rather than having the man politely ask to take it off, after all. If we live in a culture where rape is common and celebrated, then that means the streets are just teeming with sweaty, brutal men that all will froth at the mouth and fight tooth and nail just to take yon fair damsel over the nearest table.
Presumably any women reading this just got a little hot and bothered at reading that last paragraph. Using It To Your Advantage To explain how to use rape fantasies to your advantage, we first have to list one more possible explanation for them, which is my own theory that still vaguely ties into the last explanation.
My theory is that rape fantasies are an extreme exaggeration of what you actually want in your sex life. Similarly, men may fantasize about something like being locked in a royal harem and plowing every one of those concubines, but were this to occur in real life, the man would have sex with two or three of them and then humiliate himself when he failed to get it up any more.
So how do you use the rape fantasy to your advantage? Perhaps do an actual rape role-play.
The key to remember is this: If you remember that women have fantasies about idealized, extremely violent sex, modulate it a little bit and use it to keep the women coming back! If women do have this psychological quirk, why not use it to your and her mutual benefit?Crime Christian college punished football players who raped and beat a student with an 8-page essay.
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